By Nirmal Mangar
Tsheten Lepcha, a 20-year-old English Honours student from Tadong College, is a proud trans woman from Rongli Bazaar, Pakyong District, Sikkim. Born to late Tshering Lepcha and Sashi Lepcha, Tsheten is officially registered as a trans woman with the State and is steadily emerging as a strong voice for the transgender community in Sikkim.
Recently crowned with the ‘Beautiful Skin’ title at Miss Trans North East, Tsheten describes the win as surreal. “It felt like a bonus,” she says with a smile. “Hard work, skincare, and beauty sleep—guess it all paid off.”
A Platform Beyond the Crown
For Tsheten, pageantry goes far beyond glamour. “I wanted to represent Sikkim’s trans community and show that our stories matter,” she explains. “This platform was about empowerment—amplifying voices, connecting people, and inspiring others like me.”
One of her most cherished experiences was bonding with fellow trans participants. “Meeting my trans sisters was surreal. We connected through shared journeys, and those friendships are priceless.”
Courage, Identity, and Family
Self-identifying as a trans woman in a small state was not easy. “Coming out to my family was tough,” Tsheten admits. “But my mother’s acceptance meant everything. She is my rock—her love made me stronger.”
Facing societal taboos in her village required immense courage. “Embracing my identity meant confronting prejudices head-on. Staying true to myself helped me push through.”
Why Legal Recognition Matters
Tsheten stresses that legal recognition is vital. “It validates our identity and opens doors,” she says. “But education—both within our community and in society—is equally important. An empowered trans woman can create a brighter future.”
Yet challenges remain. “Basic things like accessing public toilets are still difficult. In school, standing in boys’ lines or using inappropriate facilities was overwhelming. Those moments were hard, but they shaped my strength.”
Challenging Stereotypes
She firmly rejects narrow perceptions of trans women. “Society thinks we’re only about dance or makeup, but we aspire to be doctors, teachers, police officers. I hope people see our potential beyond stereotypes.”
Encouragingly, Tsheten believes Sikkim is evolving. “Society here is becoming more accepting. Many people are liberal and fair-minded. We’re all human—accepting someone’s true nature is a privilege.”
Supportive Campus Life
At Tadong College, Tsheten has found acceptance. “Academics are going well. My friends are supportive, and my teachers respect my identity. Seeing people educate themselves to accept us is beautiful,” she shares. “Sure, a few haters exist, but 90% are cool—and that’s what matters.”
Balancing studies, pageantry, and activism isn’t easy, but discipline keeps her going. “Time management is key. I stay focused and make it work.”
Dreams and Determination
Tsheten’s goals are rooted in love and responsibility. “I want to be successful and support my parents. I want to make my mother proud.”
She credits Rainbow Hills Welfare Association as a pillar of strength. “They were my backbone—helping with TG cards, sponsoring events, and standing by the community. Their support made a huge difference.”
According to her, community-based organisations are lifelines. “We need more groups like Rainbow Hills to keep empowering LGBTQIA+ people in Sikkim.”
A Voice for the Future
Miss Trans North East holds deep meaning for Tsheten. “It amplifies silenced voices and brings the community together. For younger trans people, it shows they are seen and united.”
She sees herself as a role model. “It’s a big responsibility, but it’s also my strength.”
Social media, she believes, plays a key role. “Platforms like Instagram and Facebook help amplify trans stories and build understanding.”
A Message to the Community
Her advice is simple yet powerful:
“Be yourself. You don’t need perfection. Love yourself and believe in yourself—everything will be okay. Accepting yourself is the first step; society will follow.”
The Road Ahead
Tsheten calls for structural change. “Sikkim needs a Transgender Welfare Board. Inclusive toilets in schools and colleges, and proper sensitisation of staff and students, are crucial.”
Looking forward, she plans to continue working with Rainbow Hills—counselling others to embrace their true selves—while also growing her business. “Exciting times are ahead,” she says with confidence.
